When it comes to sex, bigger is NOT always better. At least, not for every position or maneuver. The good news is that women can now experience maximum pleasure with the right person, regardless of what size of penis he’s carrying. Here, see four different sex positions, tailored to perfection for four different types of members. Whether he’s giant or below average (or curves dramatically to the right!), you’ll definitely find a way to reach maximum velocity with these pointers.
An Average Fellow Most positions are fair game-so experiment! Sex expert Emily Morse of SexWithEmily.com suggests the Crouching Dragon: Wrap your arms around his shoulders and your legs around his midsection before having him crouch down in a squat so that his body makes a human chair for you. Press your body closely up against his as you grind.
Mr. Big Spend 10 to 15 minutes in foreplay to help the vagina expand, and use lube. Choose you-on-top moves to control how deep he goes. Lean over his body with your hands on either side of his head on the floor or a mattress, “as if you’re about to do a pushup,” says Morse. “It also helps for him to bend his knees so you can lean back for support.”
Smaller Than Six Inches Go rear-entry, says Debby Herbenick, Ph.D., a sex researcher at Indiana University. This offers you deeper penetration. Rest your head and shoulders on a pillow, lift your butt up, then squeeze your thighs. The tighter your legs, the snugger the fit. (Avoid lube: With a smaller guy, friction is your friend.)
Bendy Boy If he has a slight sideways shape, “have him stand next to the mattress while you lie on it,” says Morse. “Alternate angling yourself to one side, then the other, almost curled in a ball. He can use your shoulders for support while he thrusts and you find which of the positions feels best, depending on which direction his penis bends.”