Speaker Ayambem’s thread on loneliness at the top elicit varied responses on social media

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In a candid social media post, Elvert Ayambem, the current Speaker of the 10th Cross River State House of Assembly, opened up about the loneliness he perceives at the pinnacle of success. The post triggered a cascade of responses from various individuals, offering diverse perspectives on the dynamics of friendships amidst success NEGROIDHAVEN can say.

Ayambem’s post, where he states, “Why do friends celebrate you more when on the same level with them in the trenches but have every cogent reason to detest or hate you once you outgrow them? It’s truly lonely at the top,” resonated with many, including Efa Oka, who playfully teased about Ayambem not returning calls.

Efa Oka’s comment reflects the lighthearted nature of some responses, contrasting with more profound reflections from others. Ifiok Pontiff Akpan highlighted the importance of the type of friends one surrounds themselves with, suggesting that the behavior depends on the quality of friendships.

Speaker Elvert Ayambem’s controversial social media thread

Enene Ekóm offered a metaphorical perspective, comparing success to a Ferrari with only two seats, suggesting that having a smaller, exclusive circle can lead to more significant victories. Meanwhile, David Barronex pondered the shift in connections once success is achieved, questioning the change in communication dynamics.

Responding to the diverse opinions, Benedict Abijah suggested proactive steps, advising Ayambem to go to his friends rather than waiting for them to come to him. Chukwudi John succinctly stated that it is the nature of life, emphasizing the inevitability of changes in relationships.

Pere Du Roi and Janet Andokie delved into the realm of jealousy and envy, acknowledging that success can breed haters but emphasizing that success will continue to astound them. Owen Oyama and D-Jack Asigbe explored the psychological impact, discussing how bruising real friends can unintentionally occur when fame is attained.

The thread ended with a reflection from Agbor Kingsley, emphasizing the importance of embracing the old circle of genuine friends even in moments of success. Kingsley noted that those who rise to the top with you are like vapor, while the old circle remains genuine.