RELATIONSHIPS: Security Alert & Counsels

By Rev. Mrs  Charity Anayo Ann

LOVE IS A DECISION..IT IS NOT A FEELING.

WHEN YOU WANT TO MARRY.. DO NOT MARRY FOR THE “BENEFIT” BUT MARRY FOR THE  “PURPOSE” OF MARRIAGE. JUST AS MAKING HEAVEN IS NOT THE PURPOSE OF SALVATION FROM SIN, BUT RATHER THE BENEFIT.

THE PURPOSE OF SALVATION IS TO WORSHIP GOD AND SERVE HIM.

THE FAMILY IS THE SMALLEST UNIT OF THE CHURCH. 

YOU DO NOT MARRY TO OVERCOME LONELINESS…BECAUSE YOU CAN STILL MARRY AND BE LONELINESS.

IN YOUR MARRIAGE, IF YOU ARE NOT USEFUL TO GOD.. THEN YOU ARE NOT FRUITFUL.

ANYONE WHO COMES IN CONTACT WITH YOUR FAMILY MUST CONTACT GOD.
IN MARRIAGE THERE MUST BE SACRIFICE.. YOU MUST PART SOMETHING DEAR TO YOU.

YOU DON’T FEEL MARRIAGE, YOU ARE NOT MARRIED UNTIL YOU ARE MARRIED.
DON’T PLAY MARRIAGE…IT IS A COVENANT.

FOR THE SINGLE LADIES, FIND OUT WHY MALES ARE AROUND YOU. LET THEM DEFINE THEIR PURPOSE IN YOUR LIFE.

REMEMBER LOVE IS NOT SEX AND SEX IS NOT LOVE.
IF SEX IS LOVE, THEN THE HARLOTS WILL HAVE THOUSANDS (1000s) OF LOVERS. IN ANY RELATIONSHIP, GIVE ONLY WHAT YOU CAN IGNORE WHEN THAT RELATIONSHIP ENDS.  ROMANTIC LOVE BRINGS YOU TOGETHER BUT TRUE LOVE KEEPS YOU TOGETHER. 

LOVE IS A DECISION. YOU DON’T LOVE PEOPLE BECAUSE THEY ARE GOOD BUT BECAUSE YOU HAVE A MANDATE. 

NAKEDNESS BEFORE YOUR SPOUSE MEANS YOU HAVE NOTHING TO HIDE. DON’T MARRY UNTIL YOU ARE READY TO TAKE RESPONSIBILITY AND HAVE A FAMILY INDEPENDENT OF YOUR FATHER AND MOTHER. 

WHATEVER YOU ARE AND HAVE, YOU MUST PLEDGE TO EACH OTHER IN MARRIAGE. DON’T FALL FOR EVERY ACT OF LOVE.. SOME ARE FALSE. WHATEVER YOU SAW IN HER THAT MADE YOU MARRY HER, KEEP SEEING IT SO YOU CAN KEEP YOUR HOME. 

DON’T COMPARE YOUR FAMILY WITH OTHERS NOR SHOULD YOU COMPARE YOUR SPOUSE TO ANOTHER. PRACTISE WHAT WILL WORK FOR YOU IN YOUR HOME. 

MARRIAGE MAKES NO ONE HAPPY, RATHER IT IS PEOPLE THAT MAKE MARRIAGE HAPPY. LEARN TO ALWAYS MANAGE AND RESOLVE CONFLICTS IN MARRIAGE.

Compiled by nelson amaobi osuala.