In order to be able to spot a womaniser you need to understand
what a womaniser is. Put in basic terms it is the word used to
describe a man who is looking for a no strings attached sexual
relationship with no ties and no consequences.
A womanizer will use every trick in the book to get you into bed
and as soon as you are out of sight will be doing the same with
someone else behind your back and will be cheating on you
with any number of women, and the sad thing is, that in the
process he will have totally stolen your heart. They are not easy
to spot either as many of them operate a charm offensive that
would melt the heart of even the hardest stone.
1). Masters of Disguise
A womanizer is inherently incapable of keeping a
monogamous relationship; his ego is so inflated that
he would feel unable to stay true to one woman as he
would feel that there are women out there who need a
man like him, and he is not going to let them go
without. He will appear charming, debonair and have
something about him that will just make you go all
weak at the knees as soon as he approaches you, he
will flatter you, smother you in a waterfall of
compliments, all of which is drawing you further and
further into his web. Don’t be fooled by the feeling
that he arouses in you though, as he is manipulating
you and you are playing right into his hands.
2).Defining a Womanizer
There a number of words that immediately spring to mind when
asked to define or describe a womanizer; words like charming,
attentive, powerful and mysterious are some of the most
common. You could of course be a little more descriptive and
add words like Casanova, lady-killer and seducer, these
descriptions are a little darker, a little more sordid and a lot
closer to the truth, unfortunately these words do not convey the
utmost sincerity that he uses in his approach to his seduction.
Whilst womanizer is a blanket term there are several different
types of womanizer that can be identified. The most common of
which is the Alpha Male: It doesn’t matter what the situation is
where you meet this man, he will make sure that he is positioned
in such a way he is looked up to by his peers and worshipped by
women. Whilst he may feel like he is a king with control over all
that he surveys you can be sure that you will not be treated with
the respect deserving of royalty. It is his over whelming
confidence that will give you the first inkling that this man
should be avoided at all costs.
3). Spotting the Signs
There are a number of signs and giveaways that you can look
out for if you feel that you may have got yourself caught up in a
relationship with a womanizer. One of the sad things is that
women often don’t realize that they are caught up in one of
these relationships until it is too late, which is why it is
important to know what to look for right from the start.
4). Pet Names:
A serial womanizer will tend to call you by a lot of
pet names, things like ‘sweetie’ and ‘princess’ nothing that
could be a derivative of your own name. He uses names like
these so that there is no fear of him calling you by the wrong
name, therefore getting caught out. Please bear in mind that just
because your man calls you by a pet name, this does not mean
that he is a womanizer, it is just something that you should be
aware of.
5)Mobile Phones:
Womanizers in relationships will be incredibly
protective of their mobile phones. Even if it has never crossed
your mind to take a peek, if you did you would find that he will
not keep a record of text messages, everything will be deleted as
soon as it has been read, and there will be no trace of the
messages that he has sent either.
They are many more signs to spot a womanizer when you know this signs
it will be like a shield that will protect you from womanizers.
Courtesy Narialand.
